All Cheers for 2011... A Toast for 2012 ",))

It has been a blessing to me since the first day of 2011 and I can't keep my eyes close knowing that few hours from now, this year will be over. A lot of unexpected things happened, life's twists and turns, a roller-coaster ride of relationship, a major misunderstanding of friendship and abundant blessings here and there. Yet most of them gave me different feelings such like; pain, doubts, touched, amazed, tame, burst me in tears, abrupt and so on- in short I had mixed emotions. From family, friends, to work, different relationships and other outside yet personal commitment. However, on a lighter side it fed me with varieties of lessons I couldn't ignore. Those lessons helped me become who I am today and more than anything else I am grateful of such experiences.

Let me tell you what major things happened to me during this entire year.

As I remember, nothing so special about this month. I mean, there wasn't anything that caused me to worry or be blown away and distracted. I must say, I started my year right.

I felt both in love and out of love during this month because I was ready to face the coming of the person I assumed to be my prince. I was in love with my relationship I had with "bhe". I was okay when he was on board (I mean we were okay) last year of May. At first everything went well, he asked me to wait and I waited. But a couple of months still at 2010, I received an unexpected and unclear message  from him which brought me to swift the way I considered him, that he will be no longer my beau when he will come. It was very painful because it was hanging and the fact that we couldn't communicate well due to distance and the high cost. I admit, coping up and moving on were really hard and even harder because I had so many unanswered questions. I was then out of love, disappointed and completely devastated. But then, I know I have to continue the life I want to live like. So with the help of some great friends that continues to shine  with their encouragement, going back on the tract was as easy as 123.

March, bhe's birthday and his return. I was really fine. Though I was trying to hold my desire of not seeing him and of burying all the questions I wanted to ask. For the last trimester of last year, I told myself already to forgive him and laid at rest all that had happened between him and me. He was then trying to communicate with me to fix things right yet in me, I was controlling not to entertain because I was hurt and as much as possible I didn't want him to see me crying in pain. At the end, I decided to finally meet him once and for all to talk and to clear things up. It wasn't easy. After the emotional meeting, I was found myself at peace and free. I learned to let go of those feelings and was happy then.

My major exam... my birthday... and my trip to Bohol. This month I realized that with prayers and faith anything is possible even the most impossible things for human being. God answers! and God really answered mine. At this month, I realized to take things slowly. I mean, taking time to decide on something I want to do for myself. After the trip to Bohol which gave me so much fun and was full of lessons learned through the Singles National Conference about Man-Woman, I had time to think about myself and the people around me more. Realizing their importance and wants in life. I had better understanding about them.

Discovering stranger! Summer season! Nothing so special except that I came to know Mr. Aniban, an Elimite that I knew first during the last month of conference in Bohol. He was such a good person and I was really blessed when I got to know him a little accidentally. Another thing, I honestly also had a short-term relationship with a super kind person. Unfortunately, I felt sorry because it was too short but the separation was for our own good - for now! Too late then I realized. On the other hand, this month was also the birthday of the person I do not know personally and she is either. However, I admit that this person inspired me to write again and express everything I want to say. I read her blogs and most of her sentiments are also mine. She's a smart cookie and I admire her with all her achievements because somehow I also want to achieve what she had for we both in the same line - teaching! I somehow feel envious. Yet, I know that God has something reserve for me to do and I totally understand that I have other journey to walk. I just want to thank this person "Emalyn", because she inspires me and I was/am blessed with everything I know about her. May God bless her even more!

He came back!
Minding all the things happened months ago, bhe came back. It wasn't that easy and quick. I took time. Though the feelings were still the same but I took time. The communication was constant. I was confused. That was the only thing I knew about me at that time. Anyway, so much for that,  Ate got her job this month also and she was extremely happy for it was her dream job and the place. Good for her! My younger siblings are about to graduate. Three (3) of them lack only 1 more year. So, budgeting was my main concern. Happy for them anyway!

We were together again! 22nd of this month to be exact when I made a decision to be with bhe the second time around. They said it will be sweeter hahaha yet I will say, it wasn't that sweeter. I was happy being with him. I was happy because he won me back. I was happy because he made effort. He communicated constantly. At that time, I felt very important amidst all the negative thoughts I had back in my mind. However, never those thoughts won. My heart and feelings prevailed. I must say, it was the best thing happened to me this month. The feeling of being in love and be loved was the happiest.... I had also my eye checked and was advised to wear glasses now.

Papa's first month of not working anymore and it was also during this month when he experienced severe attack of his asthma. It was extremely terrible. Repeatedly, I couldn't imagine him being in that situation if we weren't have all those blessings of money for the entire medication just to get him well. It was our first time seeing papa suffered a lot. Each time I saw papa, I felt broken because I knew how he tried himself to live and to catch his breathing just to be alive still. Mama at that time was really supportive. She never left papa's side in a single minute and she was the one who took care of him very well. After almost a month, he was getting better. Then, I realized my parent's hard work and love for each other. They both deserved to be rewarded. The prayers of many people helped him get well.

The most unforgettable month this year! So much tears flowed, so much heartaches, so much pain yet it was so much a lesson to learn. Everything happened to me this month were all first time and recovering from a delirious health situation wasn't that easy. I couldn't believe it. It was really a bitter pill to swallow. After all, I was still grateful. I just don't want to hold any grudges or bitterness though the scars and trauma will always be here. Then, I decided to set my sights on doing all the things I want to.  This time, all I want is to forgive, if I can - I want to forget it and to love even the most difficult and unacceptable thing for me. I wish to love. I wish to accept. I wish to understand. 

Planning! It's time to end! It's time to move on! It's time to embrace new things! and it's time to plan for a better and brighter future! Wow!... Switching directions and plans have been in my mind this month. I want to pass the board next year, I want to run again, I want to stop my morning shift, I want to work something different - a place, a classroom situation already or anything as long as it's different by next year and I want to go back studying. Everything shifted after last month and all I have is hope and faith in the Lord that by His grace, all these things will be possible.

Papa's better health condition and a fine me! This was also my last month of serving Elim Singles as Promo/Docu Servant Head. It was so sad and happy. Sad, because I will surely miss everyone in this ministry including the pressures, meetings, deadlines, videos, planning, co-servants, dwellers and everything about the ministry. Leaving them wasn't that easy for me. Yet, I'm happy, because I know I'm moving forward for a better place to do different service.  November was a month of decision for I was already in my new place before this month ended. The place was an answered prayer. :)

Last month! Excited me!
I had a different Christmas and New Year. Before this month will close, I already filled for April 2012's board exam and had my last eye check for this year.




With all the things happened to me, all I want to say is "THANK YOU" to all the people who had been a part of me through thick and thin or by accident. Yow, the one who cheered me up when I was really down, confused, bothered, hurt, in pain, in difficult trials in life and in almost everyday of my life. Yani bb whose presence in the office is undeniable. T. Lou, T. Hilfe, T. Cris, T. Florence, T. Rydna, T. Lana, T. Rogie, T. Alma, T. Sheila, T. Des, T. Cheriza and the rest of the new batch of teachers in K & P, thank you. I won't be able to work like the way I work if you're not there as well.  Kuya Danny, Ate Divine, Ventot, Dodong Ace, Kuya Eric, Kuya Randy, Ate Jean, Ate Steph, Ate Daisy, Ate Zabeth, and Donna, my friends in the ministry who lifted me up when I am oppressed. Kuya Boie and Ate Wilma, servant heads in Elim Carmen, who in one way or the other encouraged me continuously. Ate Faith, my faci whose guidance and words serve as my inspiration in doing all God's plan for me one at a time and who taught me to be in God's presence all the time. Jing, who gave and shared a lot of presence and unforgettable moments to me this year and who contributed one of the grandest tests in life. I know and I strongly believe that God has something for me to learn why all those things happened in this year. Most of all, even if I was in a roller coaster ride of emotions, I want to end this year with a great smile not just on my face but as well as in my heart to show that everything in me is okay now. 


To entertain the other side of the coin, I told myself to let go of all those negatives vibrations for it does no good in my life if I will continue to live with it. To forgive is another main concern and to surrender those things I can't keep for long.  This what I realized, sometimes, we are all caught up in the idea of pleasing everybody but in the end, we are the ones who are unhappy. It's not wrong to follow your heart or to defy all the odds. Live your life the way you want it to be, share it with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, because after all, more than anything else, the general rule is pleasing the Almighty and not fearing the second rate opinion of somebody else.


And to everyone who has been my comforter, adviser, friends, lover, colleagues, buddy, enemy hahaha "SALAMAT KAAYO". May all of you will have a prosperous New Year. 2011 wouldn't have been this colorful, fun, exciting and challenging without you. So, before this year takes its course, I want to have my first step for the next year by letting you know that, for all those times that you've been with me, those were the happiest and the most memorable. Let me apologize also for the occurrence for being in my indifference, tactless sometimes and for being insensitive. I really appreciate so much of your presence. Nothing can compare your indisputable and unquestionable "you". Kamsahamida for being part of my 2011 book of life and hope to see you to my next pages in 2012 a lot better. Happy New year everyone! May God bless you with His tidings of love!

All cheers for a great 2011 and A hopeful toast for 2012 ^^

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A New Route

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I know people who feel like they’ve wasted years of their lives because of poor choices. They spent years in a relationship that was toxic, years with an addiction, years at a job where they weren’t fulfilled. But you have to realize, nothing you have been through is ever wasted.

Your past experiences, good and bad have deposited something on the inside of you. Those challenges have sharpened you to help make you who you are today. When the enemy brings hardship into your life, God has a way of taking that experience and turning it around for your advantage. You may think you’ve hit a dead end, but if you’ll stay in faith, you will see God begin to open up a new route. He’ll put the right people in your path, the right opportunities, the right circumstances to move you forward toward your God-given destiny.

Today, don’t focus on what’s happened in your past, focus on what God will do in your future. He wants to restore your soul and revive your dreams. Keep believing, keep expecting, keep hoping because God has a new route for your future!

-by Joel Osteen

P.S.

Not all days are good. One day you can be smiling widely, and the next you could be crying pales of tears. God never promised sweet days everyday. But HE promised to give us things for our BEST Interest. It may not be exactly how we want things to happen, but it is what’s BEST. Just keep the faith! Keep believing! Our GOD favors the faithful!

-Christine Fernandez

P.S

Praise God! This blog gave me the strength to hold on to HIS promise of future full of hope (Jer.29:11). Yes, GOD is good and will always be good. I will keep the faith. I will wait. I will be grateful, no matter what. HE knows BEST for me. 

-Vanch

Improve Your Relationship By Taking Care of Yourself First

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For human being, having a good, happy, faithful, God-fearing and harmonious relationship is very important and it's everyone's dream. Both male and female long for a long and lasting partnership yet due to some unpredictable circumstances, breaking up the cord that bind them is the common solution to this situation.  This article about relationship caught my attention this evening and it gave me the urge to share this to others through here. I believe we all had been into an on/off relationships, some might be so painful that we felt miserable and dying after because we lost the one we thought our prince or princess. Some might be in the decree of begging love from others just to fill in that void they have in their inner selves. Some felt so easy but deep inside they're struggling from anguish. No matter what it is, I hope this article will help you in preparation for your next desired relationship. God bless you! 

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It’s important for you to take care of yourself before you try to fix your relationship. The old saying ‘You can’t give away what you don’t have” applies here. Until you are peaceful and happy, you won’t have a peaceful, happy relationship.

If you skip these steps and jump immediately into the murky waters of your troubled relationship, you are at high risk for going under. That’s why it’s so important to do all you can to stabilize yourself before you get in over your head.

Before you confront core relationship issues, first follow these two steps to increase your chances of success:

1. Commit to being okay no matter what happens.

Make yourself a promise that you’re going to take good care of yourself and be okay no matter what happens in your relationship. If your happiness absolutely depends on your partner being a part of your life, then you’ll feel fearful and powerless. As a result, you’ll be more likely to engage in ineffective behaviors such as begging and pleading. The more this happens, the less your partner is to want to stay in the relationship. Why is this?

One reason is that you will be perceived as emotionally needy and dependent. Whatever someone else does for you will never be enough because you’ll always want more from that person. Your partner can sense this and will be afraid of being consumed by your never-ending demands for attention and care.

Another reason is that it’s too heavy of a burden to feel totally responsible for another person’s happiness. Most people want to run the other way when that’s the case. A partner who does try to be everything to the other person will eventually feel resentment and anger at being put in such a demanding position. And any sense of playfulness and fun, which is so vital to an enduring relationship, will be snuffed out.

By showing respect for yourself and belief in your ability to thrive whether in a relationship or not, you’ll be coming from a place of empowerment and strength. These attributes attract others and engender respect, making you a more desirable partner.

2.Commit to putting more fun in your life even when you’re feeling miserable.

Don’t wait until your relationship is perfect to plan fun activities for yourself. Sign up for a community class to learn about kayaking, gourmet cooking, or drumming. Make a list of places in your town or a nearby one that you’d like to visit. Branch out, learn new skills, and broaden your world.

When you’re active and having fun, you’ll be happier. An extra benefit will be that you’ll also appear more attractive to your partner. Individuals who are happy have a natural sex appeal that draws others to them. When you’re living life with gusto and a sense of adventure, irregardless of the state of your relationship, your partner is more likely to want to spend time with you.

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is to wait and see what happens in your relationship before you take steps to create a more satisfying life. After all, would you rather spend time with someone who is miserable and unhappy or with someone who is doing interesting, fun things and enjoying life? Enthusiasm and a sense of fun are powerful aphrodisiacs that attract others like a magnet.

The more centered, balanced, and happy you are, the more you increase the odds that you’ll be able to create a happy, healthy relationship.

Source:  http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Wasson1.html

A Fruitful Journey

I'm on the verge of counting the days to end this fruitful journey. Since last year I was discerning and planning to transfer another place because I personally don't want to deal any longer on the fact that all I can do is to deepen my understanding and patience on  specific situation that I consider already tame. At last I found it. A place where I find safer, quieter and more peaceful. Ahead of that were series of character tests but glad to know I still found myself on the right track though I honestly struggled and did little mistakes, committed wrong actions, gave unfit thoughts, shed tears and was shaken.

I realized that there are things in life where all we need to do is let it flow, accept the things we don't understand, be open to the different principles and preferences of others. Sometimes avoiding is necessary in order not to create any conflicts and misunderstandings. Surrendering to the things that is beyond our control is also of import. Since then, I believe life will be more fruitful if we let go of the grudges we don't actually need.

After all those stressful days, I realized that I was just simply being tested of how strong my determination and focus were, of where my patience will go, of how deep was my faith and how I was going to react on those trials. Yet, now I'm in great awe realizing that I did what is right and believing that the Lord put everything in order for me. He worked on my schedules, my rest time, my finances, my actions and thoughts most of all He guided my heart. I couldn't imagine myself if I didn't follow His leading. What a fruitful journey!

Just contemplating!

Thanking YOU

I wanna live each day of my life thanking the Lord for all His favors and blessings!

These past few days I realized how the Lord made things in order for me, my family and some of the people around me. First, I finally went to TESDA and CTU for inquiry and I already got the information I needed. Though I still have to do some follow-up and visit another school and somewhere in Ramos Street, I am happy enough because I did it my own. Yes, my own because I ain't so familiar in the city and I will probably lost myself if I wasn't that careful. Yet, I'm grateful for the courage and determination when I extended my horizon and became dependent with no fears during that day. I know, as I live my life here and follow the Lord's will, I will become the person I want to be. Second, papa's health is improving. I just knew it last weekend when I went home. I'm glad because I can see him smiling, joking around with me and not using very often his nebulizer. He even went to the city by himself. With regards to my siblings, they're all okay and Ate will soon be promoted to her work. I prayed before that may the Lord bless her with someone who will love her yet she broke the news to me last Saturday that someone is courting her. Wow! Truly Amazing. I may not know where it will lead them but I sure enough that the Lord will have His ways for them. Seeing all my family in stable disposition makes me at peace. Third, Roselyn, my very good friend is getting married and I'm happy because she's happy. Anday, another friend of mine is also happy with her relationship now. My other friends are soon to have their babies. I don't know and it might be so weird but I am extremely excited for them. Another thing, my conviction is very strong and I can't even explain it exactly yet I know my life next year will be something I want to be in God's grace. I'm excited to do His will and I'm taking it one at a time.

In the middle of these blessings, I know the other way around will be trials and tests and I am ready for it. Lastly, the Lord is always faithful to His promise and He really answers prayers.

How grateful are you with everything that you have?

Playing around the park with no worries!

Assorted

I don't know how to start this. My mind today is loaded with so many words I actually don't know what it means like. All I want this time is to unload this and be filled with new things again. I am not sure if I'm going to make sense here now, huh! Anyway to begin unloading this bulky head, let's talk about relationship, at present it has to be the effort of the two of you because it won't work well if it only comes to either of you. It has to be spirit-filled relationship where God is the center and nurtured by proper values. Hahahaha now I got myself, I'm filled with all those sorts of relationship. Am I looking for one now? Uhmmm

In friendship, it has to be true for it takes an ample of time to find good and trusted friend. Friendship must be developed with deep understanding and maturity of minds for it will break easily if one is immature and inconsistent.

In the family, time is valuable. I advise you to spend quality time today!

In the workplace with the workmates, it has to be a total inquiry yet with love and respect. 

At work, it has to be pure business with a heart. Doing your best because you are being paid. Complains will always be around and it's tempting to grumble every second but at the end of it, you will realize that you stick to it! If you want to complain because of something and it you're not happy, find another job!

Disclaimer: I'm not an expert! I am just an observer. Now, I feel relieve so it's time to rest this crazy mind of mine. :-p

First EC

In lieu of my last post here's now the story:

I claimed to be in the Excellence Conference this year, but due to unexpected circumstances I gave up and surrendered my desire to be there. Since I already have the plane tickets courtesy of a very good friend in community and I still felt obligated to pay so on Monday dated October 3, I went to CFCCC for the Team Rev. and to meet and pay my friend. To my surprise he didn't accept my payment and said in vernacular; "Unsaon mana nako ang kwarta?, Dili ra gihapon na nako magamit. I-libre na lang nako nimo imong ticket. Hiposa na lang nang kwarta basta ang importante moadto ka!" -- That was actually WOW! I was shocked and wasn't able to utter some words. Then he asked; "Did you already ask message from the Lord since you will not go?" -- I answered shamefully, no:-( "Okay, asked message first then tell me, I'll be praying for you. " 

If you were on my shoe, how were you going to deal with it? As for me, that was 1 confirmation that the Lord wanted me to go to EC. Then I told my faci about it and she said, settle everything first, lodging, registration and so on. I'll be praying for you too. Another friend of mine but haven't seen her personally was also praying for me at that time. I can say, many were praying for my EC. And to make the long story short, I WENT THERE in faith, a confident me and along with all my messages from the Lord.

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In EC...

I learned a lot. I enjoyed so much. I was spirit-filled individual with full of blessings and graces. I actually was crying because my faith was so small and I such a sinner yet the Lord blessed me with everything I can't imagine. I had my first EC with the theme "Days of Grace". It was His grace also when I had the opportunity to serve in FoodCom, first EC and first service in an international event. Wow! I didn't think of serving there because it was my first time yet the Lord called me because He wanted to show me that His grace surround me all the time and all I have to do was to see and respond to it. 

"If you run out of words to pray, go and read the Book of Psalms." - Nelia Cosio. 

I also learned how to deepen my quite time and it's all about my "commitment". Commitment in prayer and constant seeking God's presence. I don't know but I was really blessed. I also had the chance to register myself for the next year's EC "Pray". 

I realized when you surrender yourself to God, everything will run smoothly. You don't have to work hard on it, because the Lord will reveal His ways for you when you least expect it. The feeling is like a wind blowing.

I wish to impart all the things I learned there...really great! :)

A Glimpse Pics of My 1st Ride

Call me ignorant and naive for it was my first time to ride this plane. Hahaha I was really impressed on how they accommodate their passengers, really overwhelming.

This group of blind grandfathers moved my heart with gratitude and compassion as they serenade people who come to the airport mundane for their respective destinations. They play musical instruments and sing different songs continuously to entertain people. Amazing!

I missed the chance to take a picture with this religious stand in Mactan airport where employees and people stopped to say their short prayer before they start their day at work or anything.

The passengers walked this way to enter inside the Ninoy Aquino International Airport. I thought it will be hard to go where I supposed to go this day because I was a newbie but fortunately, it wasn't. All I have to do was to follow them.

  I am not so sure, waiting area??? Hahaha

While waiting for the car who will bring us to the venue of conference.

First day, registration first.

  CFA - Communication Foundation for Asia. I stayed here til Sunday morning. All bricks because the person behind this was a European so he brought here in the Philippines their style. 

The Stage! Everything happened in this place: the opening night, entertainment where the orchestra played several beautiful songs, game show, talks, plenary sessions, mass and praise rally. I must say, it was like watching a show either in ABS-CBN or GMA because of how the people behind the conference did their service. Two thumbs up!

Around 5am. I was super nervous for I have to deal it alone and since I couldn't speak tagalog fluently so I have to go along way then I had a funny and nerve-racking experience. Hahaha

Hello sunshine! I was very happy to see the sun going back home for the whole days of conference it was raining and I wasn't able to see the sun. A view from my seat in the plane.

Those yellow buses were Cebu Pacific's and that persons in mint green and orange were the in-charge of the luggage. 

 Here's what usually have in front of your seat when you ride a plane. Safety guides and measures.

 Home bound, so pale and haggard. Hahaha

I "googled" this photo except the other one up with "Mabuhay."

I'm home! It made me sing like this... Mandaue, Mandaue, I keep coming back to Mandaue, Simply no place like Mandaue, Mandaue I'm coming home. Hahaha I replace the "Manila" from "Mandaue" .... kalurkey!

Here's all I've got. 

Give-aways! Along with this were a trip for 2 in Bohol Beach Club and 15 mobiles phones and many surprise blessings.

P.S: The article for my trip will be followed in the coming days.

Temporary Home by Carrie Underwood

Little boy, 6 years old
A little too used to bein' alone.
Another new mom and dad,another school,
Another house that'll never be home.
When people ask him how he likes this place...
He looks up and says, with a smile upon his face,

"This is my temporary home
It's not where I belong.
Windows and rooms that I'm passin' through.
This is just a stop, on the way to where I'm going.
I'm not afraid because I know this is my
Temporary Home."

Young mom on her own.
She needs a little help, got nowhere to go.
She's lookin' for a job, lookin' for a way out,
Because a half-way house will never be a home.
At night she whispers to her baby girl,
"Someday we'll find our place here in this world."

"This is our temporary home.
It's not where we belong.
Windows and rooms that we're passin' through.
This is just a stop, on the way to where we're going.
I'm not afraid because I know this is our
Temporary Home."

Old man, hospital bed,
The room is filled with people he loves.
And he whispers don't cry for me,
I'll see you all someday.
He looks up and says, "I can see God's face."

"This is my temporary Home
It's not where I belong.
Windows and rooms that I'm passin' through.
This was just a stop,on the way to where I'm going.
I'm not afraid because I know... this was
My temporary home."

This is our temporary home. 

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I'm really touched by this song. I even couldn't tell you exactly how many times I already listened to this song today and until now I am listening. The message is really great though there's some sadness but when you try to deepen it, the joy of knowing that amidst all the problems and difficulties people are experiencing, somewhere out there... we have our "home". Everything in this planet earth is just a temporary.

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The Soul That Surfs Me

Few hours ago I just finished watching the film "Soul Surfer." I was encouraged to watch it because I when I first saw the trailer few months ago, I was already excited to watch. Then I remember this morning about it, after church during lunch time I then searched the movie to watch. This is a true story about faith, family and fighting to get back on the board.  Another good thing is, the movie is based on a real-life experience of Bethany Hamilton, the main character and an award winning professional surfer now. And one more thing, my first favorite bible verse is also featured here; Jeremiah 29:11. hehe

I love movies who have great messages and this is one of those movies that I find awesome. The impact of their lines and messages are applicable to my life and to others as well and I usually share the movie to some of my friends so they will be blessed too. I am happy to know and discover that I am able to watch movie now for I was not used to before. I praise and thank the Lord because through this film I learned and being reminded that having a wider faith and trust can make everything possible. I am all blessed with the characters. The family relationship is so incredible. I can't give enough details for it will too long to tell. The great friendship is lovely. Nothing changes after the big trials. And the way they approach and face every set-backs, you can really find the courage and faith believing that everything will be okay. What a great balance! So, I highly recommend you my readers to watch this film so you will know my feelings and be blessed as well. 

Some movie lines I hardly can't forget...

"I don't want easy. I only need possible.
Love bigger than tsunami, stronger than fear.
When you get in the impact zone, get back-up.
A small step is a good direction.
Compassion can drive us to do amazing things and gives us perspective.
It's hard to look at things that are too close to you.
I could never embraced this many people with two arms."

On the other hand, I also found this link which helped me remember of some famous line and dialogues in the movie and deepen it more. 

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http://briandoddonleadership.com/2011/04/09/10-leadership-quotes-and-principles-from-soul-surfer/

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The Nature or Nurture

Disclaimer: I am not an expert nor have a full-length knowledge about the topics below. But I am definitely a keen observer. I observe a lot and try to interpret it within myself, associate it to some experiences whether mine or not or save it in my memory bank and eventually when it's full and ready I formulate different theories plus the things I learned from those mature people around me and most especially a sprinkle of Christian values. I am just an ordinary girl with extraordinary ideas. Hahahaha!!! Whether you believe my thoughts or not, it is already your prerogative. I will also appreciate if you comment, violate, suggest, add or any reactions you may have. Much welcome here =)

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Things are getting modernized from gadgets, technologies, ways of living, houses, beliefs as to people point of view. Relationships just like boyfriend-and-girlfriend nowadays is not an exemption to this. As we all know that mojority of the traditional way of courtship vanished little by little. Who's to blame? No one! It's our choice whether to follow the trend which is the liberated type where we can do whatever we want to do or do what is right like preserve what is intended to be preserved.

I have nothing against doing beyond the limit of what is proper. I mean, if you think this is good for you, then go but my advice, make sure you're ready. Whatever results this may lead you stand it. I still go in choosing what is right after doing it. No abortion or whatsoever! Nevertheless, there are still people who prefers to undergo the traditional way. Or it might not be too traditional but surely it is not also the liberated type. Waiting at the right time and enjoying each others company in the right way is still booming to others.

But hey! What's really the reality today in terms of relationship? Well, it's already up to you how you will answer this.

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Man and woman are both unpredictable species and both have complex feelings. Agree??? While on the other hand, relationship is like planting flowers that have to be taken care of its nature and nurture to spring up its beauty. From the busy life we have and from the different voices the world conspire, our relationship also have its own world. How are we going to handle it?

Well, there are various ways on how to handle it. It is already up to us what way, the most important thing is, we understand and trust each other. Distance is still not the hindrance to get bored and eventually give up though I know the importance of spending time together yet there are those successful stories even in miles apart. I must say, it is a matter of trust - T.R.U.S.T.

Arguing or pity quarrel or LQ is one of the components in a relationship. Just make sure you know how to dea with this and girls, please.... be sensitive enough while to boys, patience more then later on, don't forget to talk about it seriously. Make an agreement on specific things if needed. Solve the problem as much as possible before it will be multiplied because this will surely hard to fathom. Maintaining a relationship is difficult because it's not one person's job but both have to work it out. Don't expect the other party to shape alone the relationship, this cannot be. Be generous also in your time. No matter how busy you are, if you really care always find some time. Love is so powerful. Give it!

Whether in a relationship or not yet right now, you ought to remember this: The NATURE? or  To NURTURE your relationship?

photo: I "googled" it.

Papa Kit's Adventure

Excitement is what usually makes me decide quickly on a specific things just like yesterday. I went to Papa Kits Marina and Fishing Lagoon in Tayud, Lilo-an, Cebu City along with my sister and a friend. It was me who decide to go there because I have to check the place for our next Singles activity which we are planning to hold there. So because I am this month's Event Coordinator I make most of the plans, meetings and of course gathering all the needed information.

Just a few info about Papa Kits; the family of lawyer Democrito Mendoza poured more than P3 million as initial investments to open Zipline. Papa Kits Zipline serves as an added attraction to the existing Papa Kits Marina and Fishing Lagoon, which is owned by the lawyer who is thenational president of the Associated Labor Unions-Trade Union Congress of the Philippines. Michael Mendoza, vice president for Operations for the Visayas of the Associated Labor Unions-Trade Union Congress of the Philippines, told The FREEMAN that the idea came up when some of his brothers were at the fishing lagoon. Mendoza said one of his brothers thought about putting a zipline in their place to attract more visitors. He said after agreeing to put up Zipline, men who were experts in this type of business were hired.

Just read the link below for more info...

Source: http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?articleId=640689&publicationSubCategoryId=107

I tried their main attraction which is the Zipline of 800 meters. There was a little nervous at first but later on when I was there already, it was definitely RELAXING! I even wanted to try more and more and more. The very first phrase I uttered after waaaaaaaaa (shout) were "Praise God for this beautiful creation."  for it was really beautiful, so peaceful and very calm. "Tagos hangang kaluluwa" hahahaha. As for me, it is a very good place to have fun either with friends or family. 

If heights are not your cup of tea, you can also try their different boats such as; Canoe P200 good for 2 persons in 1 hour, Paddle boat P200 for 4 persons, Dingy P400 for 5 persons and Glass boat P600 for 10 all these boats good for 30 minutes except Canoe. If boating is not your type, they also have horse backriding P50 for 10 minutes and fishing P50 unlimited time.  

I know many people already tried and visited in Papa Kits and they even have greater stories and pictures than mine but to feed my obsession in photography here are some glimpse of yesterday's fun

Can you see this clearly?

Upon our arrival. hehe

Gearing up and Getting ready

Here we gooooo wo0o0h0o0o

We are coming...

Still hanging... wanna do again hahaha

 

posing

dog-tired-sleepy-hungry us hahaha

This delicious lunch made us awake hahaha

Continuation... this way to boat rides

tired again...riding this shuttle